Are you looking to take your relationship to the next level but are unsure of where to start? If you are looking to deepen your connection with your partner, create a more meaningful and blissful experience, begin with the Yab-Yum.
What exactly is the Yab-Yum?
The Yab-Yum is a position used in Tantric sex where a masculine partner sits cross-legged, while the feminine partner sits atop and intertwined facing their partner. This upright sitting position allows for alert awareness, aligns your chakras with your partners, and allows the breath to connect to one another. This allows for a deep meditative state to be reached, together.
While in Yab-Yum, eye-gazing and breath are the main components. However, each Yab-Yum can be individualized for your needs. You can choose to hold your gaze and connect deeply with the breath. You can close your eyes and embrace, focusing on the feelings and sensations of your bodies together. You can add in movement that is connected with your breath, allowing the energy to move through you as it pleases. Or you can even utilize the Yab-Yum position as a love-making position.
In the Yab-Yum position for love-making, it isn’t focused on movement or thrusting. It is about connection, sensations, focusing on the energy moving throughout the chakras to create a blissful experience. Focus on pulling the energy from your root chakra, up throughout your entire body to your crown chakra, and then back down again. This will increase the sensations in your body to awaken full-body orgasms.
If you are curious as to where to start to begin transforming your intimate relationships, I highly recommend beginning with the practice of Yab-Yum. Start by setting the intention of what you desire from the practice and being eye-gazing for 30 seconds (or as long as you can). Remember to do what feels good and natural to you and your partner. Experiment with other modalities of the Yab-Yum until you find what works for you! Speak affirmations between yourselves and your desires into the universe!
May 2022 bless you with passion, bliss, and the best sex of your life!